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Good morning, you are referred by my friend, he said your readings are really accurate. I have also visited your site and read some articles there. Just like anyone else, I have also a lot of queries regarding my present and my future.
Eversince I was a kid I am struggling with the environment where I grew up with, until this very moment. I just want to ask if I could bring back my family together again and fulfill my plan for them of getting a house of our own before I reach 30’s. Also, with my strong will of giving this family a good life, will I still be able to have a family of my own?
I also want to know if my BF in UK and I will ever meet and be with each other in the future? I haven’t seen him yet, not even his face on cam. I know the answer is obvious that this will go nowhere, still I am hoping that what I am feeling for him is real and believing he also feels the same.
I am really worried about our future as a family. I badly need a guide in making big decisions in my life. I know with your help I can manage to make a right decision.
May I also add my career? Am I in right track in my career? Is there something good install for me, I am really desperate to get a house for my family but my income is not enough.
I don’t know why we are being treated badly by my relatives and the only way I know to escape is to move out. However what bothers me is that every time we are given a chance to execute our plan, something bad always happen. I wonder if we are being curse or something.
Am I wasting my time helping my family out? Are we really hopeless to get a peaceful life?
Will I get old as an old maid? Worst will I die without fulfilling my plans for my family.
I hope to hear from you, I badly need a guide.
Thank you in advance.
Hi DP. Before I answer all your questions, I just wanted to say that the first thing I noticed when I saw your picture was how incredibly tired you look. You look so mentally exhausted, and I can see all of the stress and the anxiety. You really need a break, and above all you need to stop worrying as much as you do because there’s only so much you can control.
It is very noble of you to want to help your family. I do think that eventually you will be able to help your family out, but it’s unrealistic for you to think you can do this before you’re 30. To be honest, I really don’t see your family moving in to your own place anytime soon, so you’ll just really have to put up with whatever it is your family is going through with your relatives and just try to not let it get to you. Don’t pay attention to whatever it is your relatives are saying. Eventually they’ll shut up, and whatever issues they’ve been complaining about will all just die down.
Yes, you will have a family of your own, but it won’t be for a while because you will want to focus on helping your current family out first. You won’t be able to start a family of your own until your current family’s situation gets better, and that will take some time. This has nothing to do with a curse and everything to do with patience. The same goes for your career. Your career is fine, but growth will not come as quickly as you’d like, so you just have to be patient and let things grow in their own time. At the same time, as far as your career is concerned, don’t expect that things will be handed to you. If you want to get promoted, you have to be more proactive in taking on bigger responsibilities. Don’t simply do good work and expect people to automatically reward you for that.
Like I said earlier, you will eventually start your own family, but you might be in your mid- or late 30s when you do so, after all your current family’s issues are resolved. I can’t see who you’ll end up with yet, because it’s such a long time away. I do know though that it’s not going to be your UK guy. I can understand why you asked about him, cuz I really see that you need an escape, something to distract you from whatever it is that you’re going through. But sweetie, that’s all he is. A distraction. As you already know, it’s not serious, it’s not going anywhere, so eventually you’ll just have to forget about it and focus the stuff that you really need to fix.
Hang in there, Dear. Talk with friends, focus on your work, and do whatever you need to get your mind off the craziness at home. Just trust that eventually things will all work, because they really will. Above else, be patient with yourself, with your situation, and with the people around you.
Take care. I will say a prayer for you before I sleep tonight.